Done mym launcher doesn't seem to load any modpack

ever since i came back from my trip the mym launcher doesn't seem to want to load up most of the modpack for me. I have tried hard force updating some modpacks and that doesn't seem to work. then I tried deleting the modpacks and that didn't work. after that I deleted the .mineyourmind folder and reinstalled the launcher and that didn't work. then i tried updating java and that didn't seem to work. Here is the logs of infinity, direwolf20, and civilization. anyone got any idea what the problem is? for civ i can load up the modpack but i get a mod rejection.

Spoiler: infinity

Spoiler: direwolf

Spoiler: civilization screenshot of error

 

Freeze

 

enough RAM dedicated? CPU old? when did you last reboot?

 

well before i cleared the .mineyourmind folder i had 6 gb of dedicated ram but that got reset, so now its 4. cpu is not old in any way. last reboot was just now actually because i clicked shutdown instead of sleep.

 

try again? what is your CPU, 3 gigs of ram though me enough, if you have too much it is actually BAD

 

Intel Core i7-4790K 4.0GHz Quad-Core Processor
and still nothing it still freezes before its fully loaded but i can hear the minecraft music when it freezes

 

wait 3-4 minutes after it freezes, if it starts running normally, tell us

 

well this is the screen that direwolf freezes on

 

O.O

 

and there is a ae2 one for infinity
but i don't get why i am getting all of these problems i think there are more modpacks that have these but haven't tried just those 3 came to mind because i was trying to connect to them recently.

 

test on direwolf

force update: nothing chances
hardforce update: nothing changes
deleated the modpack and reinstalling it: nothing changes

 

Yup same msg

 

i have not gotten a download failed thing pop up as far as i am aware
exclude my anti virus program and run as administrator: Still not seeming to work. And I even tried uninstalling the modpack after I ran it as administrator.

there was little restrictions because of my anti virus program but even when i trusted it nothing seems to have changed.

Spoiler: log of direwolf again

Spoiler: screen it freezes on

 

um how do you install/unzip visualvm on windows 10?